As reported by The Guardian, Ruth Perry was told that Caversham primary school in Reading would be downgraded to inadequate

Ruth Perry, 53, who had worked at Caversham primary school in Reading for 13 years, took her own life in January after she was informed that the school was being downgraded from outstanding to inadequate.

Her sister, Julia Waters, said Perry had described the inspection in November last year as the worst day of her life. She said Perry had been “an absolute shadow of her former self” while waiting for the report’s publication.

Matt Rodda, the Labour MP for Reading East, said Ofsted must take action after Perry’s “devastating” death. “Ofsted must now ask themselves some tough questions about their role and how we prevent further tragedies in the future,” he said.

Rodda said he had met the schools minister, Nick Gibb, adding: “I think it’s fair to say there are local concerns about the way the inspection was carried out, also about the way the Ofsted framework and other regulations affecting Ofsted effectively work, and the wider pressure on headteachers.”

Waters told BBC South that Perry was informed that the school’s rating would be downgraded on the first day of the inspection, which was the first she had faced as headteacher.

She said inspectors reported that a boy doing a flossing dance move, from the video game Fortnite, was evidence of the sexualisation of children at the school. She said inspectors told staff they had seen child-on-child abuse, which turned out to be a playground fight.

Waters said: “Ruth took her own life on January 8; all during that process, every time I spoke to her, she would talk about the countdown. I remember her clearly one day saying ‘52 days and counting’. Every day she had this weight on her shoulders hanging over her and she wasn’t officially allowed to talk to her family.

“I remember the very first day I saw her, rather than just speaking to her on the phone, a couple of days after the end of the Ofsted inspection, she came, she was an absolute shadow of her former self.”

The report, which was published this week, found the school to be good in every category apart from leadership and management, where it was judged to be inadequate, the lowest rating. It meant the entire school dropped to the lowest rating.

Waters said the rating had “destroyed” the vocation of her sister, who had once been a pupil at the school. “This one-word judgment is just destroying 32 years of her vocation – education was her vocation – 32 years summed up in one word, inadequate,” she said. “It just preyed on her mind until she couldn’t take it any more.”